Excerpt
From the introduction:
As I started to write the posts, I realized I was writing less about how to write than I was about attitudes. Attitude makes the difference between a successful writer and a wannabe writer.
I don't just mean attitude as in that happy-go-lucky you-can-do-it! rah-rah stuff you find in most how to write (or how to do anything) books. I mean the way that a writer should look at her writing, her career, and her life in order to succeed.
Before I go further, I should define a few things.
When I talk about writing, I mean the actual creative part of the process. Creating new words. Playing. Not revision, not rewriting, not all the drudgery stuff your English teacher had you do in high school.
When I talk about career, I don't mean hobby. I really don't. And I don't mean something you do while you have a day job. I mean a career in writing that lasts for decades, not one that will last maybe five good years before petering out. I've been at this career since I was sixteen. I've had ups and I've had downs, and I've weathered all of them—by having, finding, or rekindling the right attitude.
When I talk about life, I mean the stuff you do in addition to your writing. It's all part of the package that is you. Your life informs your writing. Your writing can intrude on your life, if you let it. Your life will intrude on your writing at times.
The key is to make writing part of your life, but not your entire life.
If you want to be a career writer—someone who has decades of writing and publishing—then you must find the right balance for you. You will give up things and you will also find things because of the writing.
Because I assembled this book from blog posts, the book is anecdotal. After I finished the initial posts, I thumbed through what I had written in years of blogging on writing and publishing, and found some other posts that were, in some ways, even closer to the idea of this book.
I decided not to cut the posts much. I didn't want this to be a standard how-to book, only filled with advice and shoulds. I think shoulds are deadly to the writer.
Instead, I left the posts mostly intact because they were written in the moment, and they show how I grappled with large problems that came my way.
I wrote these through serious illness, the loss of friends and family, the near-loss of my career, and the start of several businesses (not just writing-related). I share some ups here as well as some downs.
I am rather amazed at how clearly my attitude comes through these posts. The attitude—my strong desire to write and to remain the writer I want to be—informs almost every word.