Excerpt
1: The Full Stop
You're not really a writer until certain things happen to you. Your first rejection. Your first sale. Your first revision letter. Your first eviscerating review. And your first panic attack….
One of the things new writers worry about is also one of the things that stresses more experienced writers, too. I'm talking about that dread yet inevitable experience: the Full Stop.
Sometimes, while writing, you come to a point where you don't know what the next line is supposed to be. You have an outline, you have A Plan, you may even have a deadline… but it's not happening. You're stuck.
Panic! Cold sweats! Frantic twitching and raids on the chocolate!
Some people call this writer's block, and come up with all sorts of ways to "unblock" themselves. Others insist that it doesn't exist, that a block is…well, they have a lot of theories that doesn't account for the fact that sometimes… we hit a wall.
I don't believe in writer's block as A Thing. But I do believe that this particular blockage is very real. It's also nothing to panic – or even worry – over.
Yes, that's what I said. That "OH MY GOD I'M STUCK" feeling? Listen to it, but don't panic.
What a full-stop generally means is that – despite all your notes, your outlines, and your expectations, things have changed, and you're not entirely sure where the story is going, right then. When it throws up that wall, your brain is telling you "stop and think about this, before we go in the wrong direction."
That's a good writer-brain, doing its job. Give it a cookie, and calm down, and think about it. If talking works, grab a friend, or your critique partner, your agent or even your kid, if you can trap them in the car long enough. You're the boss of your story – get it to work again.
(Aside: yes, I believe in the presence/importance of the muse. I also believe that the muse has nothing to do with getting the work done.)
I've walked enough writers through this process – and faced it myself – to determine that the best solution is to go back to where the writing last flowed freely, the last time you were deep in the groove. Go back, and start again. In knitting, I'm told, that this is called frogging – for "rippit" – rip it out.
If that means before "Once upon a time," then so be it.
You know what? That's okay. It doesn't mean you suck, it doesn't mean the story sucks and should be tossed in the heap. It doesn't mean anything other than that you thought you knew where the story was going, and you were wrong. So what?
Here's one of the great secrets about writing: There's nobody looking over your shoulder, scoring you on style points. Take another start. Slip, fall, get back up, change your mind, scribble something, draw a swooping arrow from one paragraph to another, yank entire sections and write entire scenes that you know won't make it into the final draft until the words flow again. In many cases, you need only back up a page or two – and yes, you'll know it when you find it. Trust yourself; you knew what wasn't working, you'll remember what did. As soon as you back away from the wall, it will disappear.
And, although you will probably never reach a point where the full stop/wall is not a possibility, the more alert you are to the signs of a recalcitrant story, the swifter the recovery. If you listen to your gut, back up rather than trying to charge forward, the story will get written.